#07 HOW TO FORGIVE AND FIND THE GOOD IN OTHERS. Tomer Devorah #7 | Rabbi Israel Yakobov
What is the secret to a peaceful marriage? How can you forgive someone who hurts you, and what does it really mean to judge others favorably?
In this powerful Torah lesson, Rabbi Israel Yakobov explores the sixth attribute of divine mercy from Tomer Devorah by Rabbi Moshe Cordovero (the Ramak): Ki Chafetz Chesed Hu โ God Desires Kindness.
We often focus on what people do wrong. But Hashem teaches us a different approach: to recognize the goodness in others, even when their actions disappoint or hurt us.
Through teachings from the Gemara, stories of great Tzaddikim, and practical examples from marriage counseling, Rabbi Yakobov explains how this principle can change our relationships.
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00:00 Introduction and the importance of regular Torah study
05:28 The sixth attribute of mercy: Ki Chafetz Chesed Hu
09:28 The Heavenly Hall of Love and the power of kindness
13:48 Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev: Seeing good in every Jew
19:29 How kindness can influence Heavenly judgment
25:44 The Ben Ish Chai: Finding goodness in others
33:34 How to forgive someone who treats you badly
42:39 The secret to Shalom Bayit and a peaceful marriage
49:13 What judging others favorably really means
57:10 Forgiveness, criminal behavior, and healthy boundaries
